妮妮魚

        兩天一夜的台東行
                                                                               
        終於回到新竹啦~~
                                                                               
                                                                               
        話說禮拜六一大早  就被我媽叫起床趕著出門
                                                                               
        要撘9點50的飛機到台東 073那班
                                                                                                                                                                
        這算是我有記憶以來的第二次搭飛機吧
                                                                               
        小時候其實就有跟我姑媽  一起搭飛機到台東過
                                                                               
        不過沒印象了..^^::
                                                                               
        我妹倒是一值跟我說頭很暈  一直到下了飛機都還在暈
                                                                               
                                                                               
        1點半  告別式開始
                                                                               
        是在台東市立殯儀館辦的
                                                                             
        那裡應該有整修過
                                                                               
        因為外觀上看來  完完全全像是一棟棟的別墅  有歐洲風味
                                                                               
        看不出來是殯儀館...
                                                                               
        因為我奶奶是基督徒  所以是用基督教的儀式
                                                                               
        請牧師和教會的人來
                                                                               
        禱告、唱詩歌...
                                                                               
        中間有一段是奶奶的生平追述
                                                                               
        由我的一個堂姊  做了一個power point
                                                                               
        有奶奶從以前跟我無緣的爺爺結婚(我還沒看過我爺爺他就過世了＞﹏＜)
                                                                               
        到後來生了四男三女....孫子孫女一個個出世的照片...
                                                                               
        到孫子、孫女結婚  生子的照片
                                     

        後來她84年中風  90年發現罹患大腸癌...看著看著就覺得好心酸
                                                                               
        結束後就送到隔壁的火化場火化  再入塔
                                                                               
        總算是圓滿的結束了
                                                                               
        晚上  全家族的人一起去吃飯  開了3桌有吧
                                                                               
        大人一桌  小孩一桌  教會的兄弟姊妹一桌
                                                                               
        大伙都吃的很開心  喝了很多酒 =.=
                                                                               
        我跟我妹討論了一下  為什麼氣氛會這麼的...嗯..不悲傷
                                                                               
        約莫是因為  我奶奶也到了差不多的年紀了吧  i guess
                                                                               
        總之這頓飯吃的還漫高興的  也很撐 =.=
                                                                               
        不過最重要的還是  我二伯和我四叔兩個和好了吧
                                                                               
        之前因為種種原因不合  不講話兩家子不往來一段時間了(都住台東ㄋㄟ)
                                                                               
        大概是因為爸爸走了吧  四兄弟以後只剩下三兄弟

        要是再不合...那這個家族怎麼辦呢...
                                                                               
        看到那些年紀都過了半百的人了
                                                                               
        放下了平時的身段  互相擁抱  偷偷擦著眼框的淚...
                                                                               
        這種畫面真是不常見押
                                                                               
        吃完飯  回到我奶奶生前住的地方
                                                                               
        那是一個離台東基督教醫院很近的一個小公寓  只有兩房一廳
                                                                               
        20多個人擠在那裡  聊天
                                                                               
        看著奶奶以前收集的一大本相簿
                                                                               
        有奶奶年輕的照片  和爺爺結婚時的婚紗照...
                                                                               
        還有兒女們出生時  到長大  結婚生子的照片
                                                                               
        最後面還出現了一兩張我跟我妹小時候的照片呢 :)
                                                                               
        我跟我妹一直找  我爸以前的照片

        還看到一張我爸留著鬍子的大頭照說 :P
                                                                               
        哎呀..我都認不出來呢..真糟糕...我妹都認的出來說..
                                                                               
        後來我跟我妹一致同意
                                                                               
        我爸是他們四兄弟中  長的最帥的一個啦!!!!
                                                                               
        (不然怎麼會有這麼好的基因  生出我跟我妹咧 \(￣︶￣)/ )
                                                                               
        還看到了我小姑媽年輕時候的照片
                                                                               
        所有的人都說就跟我現在一模一樣!!!
                                                                               
        好吧...我也承認...真的還挺像的^^"
                                                                               
        以前跟我姑媽  還有我媽去買衣服的時候
                                                                               
        還有老闆以為我姑媽才是我媽媽咧 ^^||
                                                                               
        看著這本相簿..真的很感動
                                                                               
        看來只用數位相機照還是沒有那種翻相本的感覺

        回去買一本大相簿  也來做一本以後可以回味的相簿吧 :p